Abusive Partner Intervention Programs

We can't just work with people who have experienced abuse to end gender-based violence, we must also work with people who cause harm. Sometimes, people who cause harm experienced abuse themselves. Providing them an opportunity to reflect on their experiences of abuse, while also holding them accountable for the harm they have caused, can help them create healthier relationships.

New York City has made one of the largest investments in the U.S. in free, community-based, voluntary programs for people who have caused harm in their relationships. These programs exist because survivors have asked for them. They give people more options for addressing harmful behaviors outside law enforcement systems.

Respect First

For youth who want to stop causing harm in all types of relationships

• Who: Ages 13 to 21 of any gender identity
• What: Free 16-week accountability program with a stipend
• Where: Bronx, Brooklyn and expanding citywide
• Languages: English
• Support Includes: Multi-week intervention
  • One-on-one case management
  • 16-week group sessions
• Referral Types: Voluntary or court-mandated
• Register or refer now

Respect and Responsibility

• For adults who want to stop causing harm in their intimate relationships
• Who: Ages 18+, all gender identities
• What: Free, voluntary program helping build healthier relationships
• Where: Citywide
• Languages English and Spanish
• Multi-week intervention
• Individualized assessments
• Case management
• Counseling
• Referral Types: Voluntary
• Cannot be court ordered to attend
• Register or Refer:

Hear from participants:

• “It benefited me in the sense that it showed me things about myself that I really didn't know even existed.”
• “It's great to see a Black man running this type of workshop, because you don't see [such] representation when it comes to even talking about mental health.”
• “The first thing I was taught through this program was to pay attention to my stresses.”