Infants and toddlers do not all develop at the same rate. Some walk as early as 9 months, for example; others, not until 14 or 15 months. If you have concerns about whether your child is developing properly — for example, if you’re worried that your baby isn’t eating enough, isn’t rolling over like other children, or doesn’t seem to recognize you — speak with your baby’s doctor. If you still have concerns, you or your doctor can call the New York City Early Intervention Program at 311 for a free evaluation and services. All New York City families with infants or toddlers from birth to age 3 years are eligible, regardless of income or citizenship. There is no cost to families and all services are confidential.

Many mothers experience both positive and negative feelings after childbirth. A mix of emotions, including joy, anxiety, and sadness is normal. So is temporary sleeplessness, loss of appetite, and difficulty concentrating. Such reactions can begin a few days after delivery; they are often called “the baby blues” and usually go away within a few weeks. However, some mothers have more severe reactions or reactions that last longer. If this happens, you may be suffering from what is called “postpartum depression.” Symptoms include decreased energy and motivation, excessive crying, feelings of worthlessness or hopelessness, guilt, anxiety, and irritability. Some mothers feel as if they do not want to go on living. If you are experiencing any of these symptoms, speak to your health-care provider or call 1-800-LIFENET (1-800-543-3638), or 311.